Today, my mother sent a message to me that a matchmaker wanted to introduce me to her partner, saying that her partner was twenty-five years old and had a dyeing and cloth factory at home.
The house was closed, but she bought three houses in Changsha and said that if I talk, tomorrow So I brought him to the house to meet and understand. My mother asked me if I wanted to talk. I said, “I’m still young, don’t talk about it!” My mother said, “Well, I will tell the matchmaker tomorrow Don’t talk about it!”
This is what I think. Now I have just come out to work and I don’t have enough experience. I still have a lot to learn. I want to improve myself first, and let my career develop steadily. I don’t want to go on a blind date so early or something, because I haven’t even decided where I want to develop in the future, and my economic strength is not strong, so I just got married. There are definitely many factors of instability, and the confidence is not enough!
I still want to let myself develop first, and then talk about it. Of course, if there is an introduction of someone who is particularly suitable for me during this period, I can also get to know it first, but I don’t want to get married too early. The single life is wonderful.
I have to spend more time. In 2009, I looked at the married people around me. The focus of life is on the family and the baby. Every day I talk about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, especially women, who are out of shape. They have to take care of their children while taking care of the house. , I’m a little worried and don’t want to lead such a life, so I want to take my time, and hope that I will get better. In the future, I can also meet the motivated boy who will share a lot of housework and take responsibility. Instead of letting me do it all!
Come on! Girl, make yourself stronger first so that you can love others better!